For WildCherry - Autisim or better yet, Asperger's Disorder

OMG SO YOUR SAYING IM MISSING A BIG GAPPING HOLE???????????????????????????///






GEE thanks deb now im really MESSED UP!!





lmao heheh xoxoxo

lol, no...I am saying it will look like that when you step back and do a survey of all you have already done. You will be like, DUH!!!, I knew I was missing something!

serina you are a true mother - wondering if you had missed anything.... you yourself need to relax with a bit of fun somewhere totally different from your home kids and Dan.

Then when you come back to earth - you might see something you missed? Not? relax again and try again? Remember you are definitely a caring mother ... give yourself a rest and a pat for such a good mother. That way you will see things better when you are totally relaxed and happy.

Go out as a family plus Dan too. i found going food shopping with Tom and boys helped to creat happy memories for us all - after shopping we'd have a bite out - maybe a sandwich and milkshake for boys - pot of tea for us too. Thus teaching boys social behavour too - then we would play soccer in the park before going home with shopping. This way it saved me from doing the cooking and Tom from doing the dishes. Other times we would have a picnic with cold chicken, pieces of raw vegetables and buttered buns - thermus of tea and another of cold fruit drink then play soccer before going home. ish and chips on cold days.

Tom asked me what i think of his paintings - to be honest i find it hard to be a critic - scared of putting him off - i'd look at it then at the mirror to see the painting in a different way. Then i would compliment him on lovely painting then point something out ... then i tell him to look in the mirror and see what i am getting at? Then again i would say dont spoil it - think before you move or change it because its a lovely painting. that way he wont destroy it!

Last of all - children need happy memories - you both including Dan (winks) can create all sorts of fun - i am very sure you can be a real fun mother and wife! hugs!!!

yup that just about sums it up i think.

i mean dont get me wrong guys. im greatful for all your guys kind words. thinkin im such a great mom and all...... but i really truely just dont feel so "great " a mother right now. a "great " mom would have had this crap figored out by now. would not have to watch her son stugle with this crap. would know how to fix it. and i just cant....... and i just feel like such a crapy mother. sorry guys im just not so great. i mean as many times as i have read and re read and scrached down on paper and re hersed the dam findings and tests and detail of experts and life and me and family geans and terry and the schools and his work and my work and reread and re surch and rescrble. and rehurs and re evaluate and toss it all a side to just start over all over again I SHOULD HAVE f*****ING figored it out by now..... augggggggg.

i NEED F***ING











WTF???????? THAT EMOTE EVEN IS NAMED AFTER ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! piff well duh yeah i guess it makes sence lol

A bad mother wouldn't have even noticed there was a problem. A bad mother wouldn't have tried to move mountains. A bad mother would have thrown her hands up and quit a long time ago. A bad mother wouldn't even stop to question if she was a good or bad mom.

Nope...don't recognize any of those qualities in you.

agreed dee! couldn't think of a better reply than yours! luv ya too dee!